I have attached a picture of my office from the student
perspective. I have always felt it is important to have an office that is
warm and inviting, and free of clutter. I try to keep the paper piles to
a minimum and off to the side of my desk.
Other things I do to Disarm the student:
Always greet them by name in the lobby and usually shake their
hand and tell them it is nice to meet them or nice to see them again. If
I can’t pronounce their name (a lot of international students) I will ask who
is here to see me, then ask them to pronounce their name for me and do my best
to repeat it. I think this helps relax them in that I care about getting
it correct and I want to be able to call them by name. If they give me a
nickname, I note that in peoplesoft and make sure I call them that at the next
appointment.
I invite them to sit when they enter my office, and ask how they
have been (how was your break, how was last holiday, how is semester
going). I follow up by asking how I can help them.
When talking with students I will ask what their commitments are outside of school. This allows them to talk about work, family, children, etc. It helps me understand all of their commitments and how to help them build a balanced schedule and discuss possible challenges. I also ask what they are involved with on campus, which allows me to refer them to different activities and events if they are not at all involved.
I really feel like I am building relationships with students by
asking these questions and I try to refer back to things they have shared with
me when we meet again to continue to connect with them.
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